A few from my collection. |
The Bow Tie was rarely worn when I was young in Dublin, only on special
occasions such as dances in the Gresham and the Shelbourne Hotels. Modesty
forbade me to wear one on other less formal occasions. It was seldom seen in
the streets or houses of Dublin at the time but I admired its tidy shape and
its many variety of colours.
I pick a favourite |
When I went to London to the National Heart Hospital in 1946 as part of
my post graduate training, I met another Dublin man older then myself. He was
Walter Somerville who came originally from the North Circular road in Dublin
and I first met him when he had returned from the war and had been appointed a
junior consultant in the National Heart Hospital. He always wore a bow tie and
he had a clean and open shirt appearance and his apparel had the effect of
attracting a second look. As a physician, or one in training, it was customary
to dress well and formally when dealing with patients – nowadays of course, one
wears “scrubs” for hygiene reasons.
Raising the collar... |
When examining patients it was necessary to examine other organs as well
as the heart and chest. At the time I was opposed to the use of the waistcoat
and I found it was embarrassing to be wearing a loosely fitted tie particularly
when dealing with young females, as it interfered and touched off the patients
abdomen. It occurred to me how efficient the bow tie was under these
circumstances. So almost from the day I met Walter, I began to wear a bow tie,
and I rejected the long and dangling loose tie. It is perhaps surprising that
since that time I never wore an ordinary tie except at a funeral, and
fortunately these were rare occasions.
Milltown Golf club centenary bow tie. |
Learning to use a bow tie is not easy, and is certainly a good reason
why they are not in more popular use. There are different types of bow ties,
those that are made up from scratch, tied in the front, and tightened from the
back – the “real” bow tie – this tie has to be dealt with carefully and
skilfully and in most circumstances is slightly imperfect in shape but all the
better for it.
for the "cheats" |
Then there are those that have already being made up and are clipped at
the back. This tie is easily
recognised by its almost false tidy sharpness – the “cheats” bow tie - and
finally there are those that are already made up and clipped to the shirt
front - the “blasphemers” bow tie – they have few friends!
Against the clock... |
On a slight aside, on one occasion at a bow tie competition, the winner
took exactly 12 seconds to complete a “real” bow tie – an odd coincidence
because it was also the exact same 12 seconds required after a regatta, for a
young Trinity student to finish a pint of Guinness without spilling a drop from
lifting the full glass until he put it empty back onto the table!
The Royal Society of Medicine |
The Bow Tie was also valuable as a marker within the professions as well
as elsewhere. Some organisations/clubs had bow ties with the club crest on them
and there was a certain satisfaction in being recognised as a member of the
organisation concerned. The Royal Society of Medicine had a fairly small and
neat bow with the letters of the logo of the organisation clearly visible. Thus
it was easy to meet a colleague and to feel a close interest in the membership.
For many years in London, that bow tie was well known and regarded but sometime
in the late 1960’s or early 1970’s I got wind from a friend that The Royal
Society of Medicine intended to do away with the tie. With this information I
visited the headquarters of the organisation in Harley Street and I enquired
about the availability of the bow tie. They confirmed that they intended to
discontinue its use. They were in dark green or dark red. I asked about the
continual availability of the tie and on searching the drawer they stated that
only five green and one red were still available. To the girl’s surprise, I
bought the lot so that they were clear of further bow ties.
The bow tie when properly tied will exist for many years if correctly
looked after. I still have many bow ties available to me. My son Hugh had some stitched into a
counterpane, providing a rather wide and perhaps bizarre picture in the
bedroom. I continue to use a bow tie on my less occasional visits and meetings
outside the home. Recently I was surprised when visiting my Milltown annual
dinner that I had some difficulty in tying it properly. But I eventually
achieved that nice, casual, carelessness which is a feature of a properly tied
bow tie.
It was certainly well identified as one of my peculiarities in my early
days but I overcame the embarrassment of being a perpetual bow tie wearer. In
fact, it might have become a source of comment to others if it was missing
during ward rounds and/or other areas. It is true to say that there are few
people with the patience and the capacity to learn the skill of making the bow
tie and therefore we shall continue almost certainly to be a rare breed indeed.